Brides & Weddings Magazine
Your wedding day is one of the most special days of your life, and you want to share it with the people who matter most to you. But when it comes to making the guest list, things can quickly become complicated. Here are some tips to help you make the guest list for your wedding:
Write a list of everyone you’d even THINK about inviting
Start by making a comprehensive list of everyone you would consider inviting to your wedding.
This includes family, friends, coworkers, acquaintances, and anyone else you think might want to celebrate with you on your special day.
Prioritize your top-tier guests
Once you have your entire list, separate the must-have guests, such as close family members and best friends. These are the people who you absolutely want to have at your wedding, no matter what.
Decide how many guests you can really afford
Before finalizing your guest list, it’s important to determine how many guests you can realistically afford. This will depend on your budget, the size of your venue, and other factors. Be sure to factor in the cost of food, drinks, favors, and other expenses when determining your guest count.
What do your parents think
If your parents are contributing financially to your wedding, it’s important to consider their input when making the guest list. While it’s ultimately your decision, it’s important to be respectful of their wishes and include the people who are important to them as well.
Be fair with family
When it comes to family members, it’s important to be fair and avoid playing favorites. If you invite one cousin, you should consider inviting all of your cousins. Similarly, if you invite one set of grandparents, you should consider inviting the other set as well.
Stagger your invites
If you’re worried about the guest count, consider staggering your invites. This means sending out your invitations in waves, starting with your must-have guests and then inviting additional guests as RSVPs come in.
Remember how you feel when you aren’t invited to a wedding
Finally, it’s important to remember how you feel when you aren’t invited to a wedding. While you can’t invite everyone, it’s important to be thoughtful and considerate when making your guest list.
Making the guest list for your wedding can be a challenging task, but by following these tips and being thoughtful in your decisions, you can ensure that your special day is filled with the people who matter most to you.
